What the Fetish? JOI (Jerk Off Instruction) Advice and Examples

Incorporating jerk off instructions into your content doesn't have to be difficult or scary. The most important part of a good JOI performance is that you feel confident in what you're saying when you're providing your instructions so the viewer feels confident in following what you're instructing them to do. Basic knowledge on "what feels good" for a viewer is a great starting point for any newbie to JOI. Jerk off instruction and dirty talk are very similar so if you're already talking dirty in your content then you'll become an expert at JOI in no time! A lot of creators new to this niche struggle with the timing and realistically there is no wrong time to provide an instruction, encouragement, or a bit of guidance. It will keep the viewer invested in following your instructions and engaged, which will provide them with more mental and sexual stimulation. 

If you're brand new to utilizing JOI in your content then you can start with basic instructions like the speed in which you want the viewer to touch themselves or the parts of their body you want them to touch. Teasing in JOI is just as important as it is in content in general! You don't want to tell them to start vigorously stroking if you're still in the teasing part of the clip yourself. Soft touches, teasing it through their clothing, or starting slow to build up into the more climactic part of the clip is a great way to get more time in your clip and create a better more in-depth jerk off experience for the viewer. Once you get more confident in timing your instructions with your performance then you can start getting more detailed and focus on very specific actions that you want your viewer to do! 

Think about sexual pleasure and anatomy when you're giving your demands. Don't forget to think about your viewer base when creating your JOI content; while basic penis oriented JOI and lingo may fit well for a performer that caters to more "vanilla" fans, a Domme creating content for sissy subs may want to change up the wording they use when referring to the viewers genitals to make the performance feel more in line with the content they are creating. 

When you're starting to incorporate JOI into your clips, usually you can start the JOI process in your initial teasing during the early parts of your video. You can try out phrases like: 

As your video continues to develop, you'll want to maintain confidence in your instruction delivery as you build the excitement and action in your performance. 

The direction of your JOI entirely depends on the kind of performance that you're putting on and where you want to lead the viewer with your words! You can drag it out for a long time for more teasing and gooning elements or you can give instructions that align with the actions you're performing on screen to make the experience more "interactive." 

Research is one of the best ways to perfect and hone your JOI skills. Obviously, never copy another creator, but taking inspiration from creators and turning it into your own magic is a great way to improve your skills and performances as a content creator. Whether you're a fan or a creator doing research - this list of YourVids creators making amazing JOI content will blow your mind!